So since I made this thread I've been super busy and haven't been able to take part in the conversation so let me start now.

I mainly made this as a rant for the most part.

Anyway I saw a few people ask what my definition of a dbag was so let me tell you all. I was running brayflox with a warrior, me a white Mage, a summoner, and a black Mage. So in this duty I use sleep a lot that way everyone's job is easier. So he says to me verbatim, "quit fucking sleeping, I'm a tank I need to get there aggro, learn your role". Does anyone see the problem with this statement? Well I tried to tell him that if I sleep something that is already aggro ex on to you and I sleep it you don't lose the aggro. He then proceeded to cuz me out some more until the summoner and my black Mage friend said something and he cried some more and left. Was I in the wrong here?