Well i am fine with gear being rare or hard to get, infact i much prefer gear be hard to get since it was way too easy to get in wow in my opinion.
But they went over the top in FFXIV and in the worst possible way.
I wouldn't care too much if it took me a year to get fully geared in this game if it didn't require me to run the same boring instance 1000+ times to get that gear.
Maybe if the content was unique every single time it wouldn't be a problem to run the same instance 1000+ times but AV pretty much never changes, i have done it so many times im sure i could do most of the instance with my eyes closed by now.
Its just plain not fun doing the same thing hundreds of times.