How not to be a mentor

[ZephyrMenodora]

3) if I’m the one with the agenda why are you defending OP to the death that none of this advice is valid even as more information comes out that they may not be playing as well as they originally claimed to be

My response isn’t restricted to the OP - but the fact pattern they presented. If they lied that’s another issue but doesn’t change my main viewpoints as to how players should treat strangers they meet in roulettes.

I also never said none of rhe advice was valid. It probably was. But constantly berating a player, even if they are truly bad at the game, isn’t acceptable to me. Giving feedback and letting someone do with it what they will - so long as they are not preventing the dungeon from being completed - should be enough.

I don’t even know why anyone would even want to spend their energy nitpicking another player for their casts. It seems exhausting and most players simply don’t take this game that seriously. - because it is just that. A game.

As I said - all I do is pug and if I sat and complained about every bad player I’ve met I’d just be miserable half the time I play, and be miserable to be around. It’s not necessary. Especially when the person at the other end of thr screen is likely some casual just trying to enjoy some free time after a long day.