Agreed on finding solutions to make it easier overall. However, it feels like until now these have been band-aids. These kinds of issues would be far less common if the communication between server and the player's computer didn't add the extra delay when weaving, as outlined in this post:
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...tions-normally.
As a content creator yourself, I'd like to ask you or anyone else you might know to address this issue directly with the devs during Fan Fests or any other similar venues. Forum user Nekkowe gave them a very detailed account on the problem and even got a response from in-game support so they
do have the information, but we have not had any response on the matter whatsoever since then.
You can find Nekkowe's original bug post
here, the video evidence asked by in-game support
here, and the in-game reply
here.