Quote Originally Posted by Supersnow845 View Post
if you are so unable or unwilling to communicate with your co healer or you are so offended that the healer either doesn’t understand or chooses to ignore you that you cry for buffs so it works independently of the healer then I oppose that stance

If you want to say me pointing out boogeymen is playing the victim then sure I’m the victim
You can't expect DRKs to write in the group log everytime they queue in or bind a macro to your Living Dead with a bongo sound hoping the healer read the chat if they can't open their eyes/ears and be aware of the bright red Living dead buff.
People actually used to bind a macro to Living Dead only to see it not being procced because healers simply don't read, as they don't expect to read the chat anyway.
In other content that requires practice, you will communicate to map cooldowns, so healers (and tank!) will know what you'll be doing.

Dungeons are in and out 10 min adventure, nothing more. You don't see WHM saying "Hey tank, I will start chaining Holy at THIS point so don't bother mitigating!!".
Come on, that's unrealistic and you know that no one bother communicating because there's no value in it. Everyone runs with their own untold rules.