This screams "you don't pay my sub" behavior.

No tanks don't have to kill themself to reset a fight. No healers don't have to raise you. No you don't have to wait for the newbie to watch their video. No you don't have to learn your rotation, just press whatever button you want. No you don't have to press your mitigations. No you don't have to do big pulls. No healers don't have to dps. No there is no such thing as early pulling...

It all boils down to being a teamplayer - or not.