Quote Originally Posted by SongOfTheWind View Post
II wish he did it for himself, not his mother who abandoned him several times. I really hate that message.
Yep, all the nonsensical "soul physics" aside, the messages they were trying to feed us were just as half-cooked. I too wish that he would have gotten a moment of emancipation or self-realisation, understanding that he can follow his own dreams.

Everything about the last zone felt so patronising towards Erenville. His grief was constantly delegitimised while every aspect of Cahciua's perspective was presented as the "right thing" and her bad parenting decisions were downplayed as funny and charming quirks. Erenville on the other hand was painted as unreasonably dour and grumpy who deserved the never-ending stream of teasing and of being "corrected".

But I just don't think "kid Erenville always cried and begged his mum to take him with her/not leave him alone whenever she would go away for a prolonged period of time" or his words à la "you always decide everything by yourself and then leave (and I have to deal with the results)" are very charming.
I think it's reasonable that this kind of behaviour (esp. during his childhood) caused him quite a bit of recurring pain.
I don't mean to say he should hate his mum but she also shouldn't be treated as this person with superior wisdom that is 100% right and Erenville as the irrational one who is always wrong, and that him following her words and path will automatically be the best thing for him.
He can love her and forgive her and still recognise that he is his own person with his own ideas, desires and dreams and they might not be the exact same things that were fulfilling for his mother.