Quote Originally Posted by WeakestZenosEnjoyer View Post
This literally describes YPYT, refusing to draw aggro so the monster kills another player,

the rest of it is about not being rude in case they just genuinely don't know they can pull larger or shaming players because they won't do giga-pulls like the first Snowcloak pull, Stone Vigil into the boss arena pulls, or Mt Gulg. YPYT isn't being a low skill player, it's a tantrum.
"sending" is not the same as "refusing to grab". To a GM, you committed suicide. You grabbed the add to begin with. A tank's job is not to save you from every mistake you could make. You created the problem. And if you go to other games, that concept isn't even a thing. If you tried to pull ahead of a tank on my old game, you would've gotten killed before you even reached the tank because the adds have ranged attacks and lunges, and in higher content will flat out 2shot you. You're not allowed to even try that concept without using the equivalent of a limit break to try to survive while getting back to the group.