Fortunately you do not need to do 40+ runs (in a row?). You can do a few, then go do something else. If you mean you did a total of 40+ runs (not at once) and got nothing, then I am very sorry for you ; ;. Even no totems? At least you got some xp! (200k or so?) and some gil! (200k more or so?). So there are some side-rewards as it is (I got Archer from 42 -> 47 on this, which makes me happy.... and the worst archer/bard in the world ^.^;
Oh yes, this is sad. I know how it is. I used to belong to LS and look fondly at the 'other' LS that kept getting all the big HNMs and pretty drops. Oh well, life is not fair. C'est la view. Que sera sera. And if this continuously happens on EVERYTHING (i.e. the 'other' LSs get stuff on every single dungeon/primal why you guys do not), then there may be something special they are doing to increase their chance ^.^.
But yes, no one guaranteed fairness, such is the luck of randomization. Hopefully if you are nice, Karma will reward you in time ^.^
Fortunately the content is not exceptionally grindy. Obviously you can choose to grind it if you wish (you can grind anything!). But that is your option, not required... for example:
If you had to kill 100,000 mobs in order to progress the main story line (independent of levelling your character) that would be a grind.
If you had to kill Ifrit 1000 times in order to get the quest finished, that would be a grind.
The fact that you want to collect every little last item possible in this world, is a choice, not a forced upon grind. By the way, there is no real need to do this (at least for the vast majority of people).
I was forward thinking to the nice pretty primal comming up soon. I am sure she will be more than happy to blow you a kiss ^.^;;;;. Nothing is fun to do if you do it too often. I love eating cookiees.. but after a 100 a day I stop enjoying it. You might like riding a chocobo, but if you do it non stop for 20 hours you might get bored (and sore).
They are creating a lovely world, where you have freedom of choice. You can choose to grind or not to grind. Let's look at your statement:
'all the weapons': There is no requirement to have all the weapons. If they want to go after all of them, that is their choice.
They want the Dark Light equipment. That is nice... but it is not meant to be really obtainable. If they watn to force themselves to repeat a million times to get something that is meant to be super-ultra-rare, that is their choice (freedom of choice). But there is no requirement to grind.
You are correct that there may not be additional things for them to do in this world. However, that does not mean that what little content there is should be made easier.
That last comment was a general statement meant for peopel at large who suffer from some or all of those issues. An emphasis that this world really does benefit those with assets. It was not targetted at you specifically.
This then starts to feel like a 'pay' system... I will get paid 1 token each time I kill Ifrit, and then I can buy a weapon for 10 tokens.... it just feels so.. un-adventerous and more like work. It will also remove the lovely feeling:
YES! YES! I finally got that wonderful beautiful staff I was so wanting! YAAAAAYY!
and replace it with:
Okey, one more run and I can go buy the staff.
I can appreciate both sides of the argument, and feel that there is room for both options in this world.
One of the concerns I have with this approach is that it is not very FF-ish. Since this is a FF-themed world, some people have expectations of FF-ish behaviours. Also a lot of what you touch on is implemented via means of a reward for doing quests (without the option of reward, but still a reward).
Additionally, the rest (choice of reward) is done by means of Grand Company Quests (go kill NMs, or clear out dungeons, or do leves) and you can get seals which you then turn in for whatever item you want (which are also good).
So yes, these are good ideas. But I think there is room for both systems (one with a clear action->pay->reward scheme, and one with a action->random chance of reward scheme).
I'm not sure I would say 100% wrong. There must be at least one thing in this world that SE thinks is good and wants us to enjoy? If every mechanic, every quest, every system, every feature now is 100% different from what it will be in 2.0, then I guess I would be wrong. But I've seen nothing that explicitly states that for everything.
Now I'm sad. I thought we were having a good meaningful discussion without having to resort to this ; ;.
I do feel I should be allowed to have an opinion without having to do 50 speed runs. Especially since doing speed runs is not high on my list, nor is killing my fun high on the list.
I suppose a discussion restricted to only the group of people who share the exact same behaviour would be interesting, but not much would come from it.
Regardless, the end result is:
No one is forced to grind, they are given the choice to do what they please.
No one is forced to get 7/7 and DL gear. They are given the choice to get this, or not.
If one chooses to do something so often it kills their own fun, the problem is not with the world, but their own choice.