
Originally Posted by
AngelCheese77
No? Not sure if you’re trying to get a rise out of me or something /shrug
Never stated ppl can’t have differing opinions. Just need to give them in a constructive way. With no personal attacks (which seems impossible for certain ppl here).
But also to not attack those who do enjoy the game how it is. Which happens a lot as well.
Instead of attacking each other, we need to use the avenues given to give feedback. I don’t think there are CM here that collects feedback, let alone engages with the community … would think that was their job!
FF14 is not perfect. But if we are giving the same feedback ad naseum and it isn’t being looked at or implemented, the next step is to look at why that is so. Too difficult? Too expansive? Doesn’t sit with the game’s vision?
Good post. Agree with everything you said here, Angel.

Originally Posted by
Thurmnmurmn
I don't know about you but when you have a discussion/arguments with people, you go one point at a time. Spouting everything at once will have the result we see now.
Also with how popular this thread is, your post will be lost in the void by the evening.
For the record, I sure didn't read it.
You know, I've considered that.
She made functionally 22 points. We have a post limit of 20 per day. If we didn't have so strict a post limit, I'd consider it.
Though I'll also note that when people write out discussions on topics, they tend to break it into points but present it together, that way others can respond to points or respond to the whole.
And, as always "I didn't read" isn't usually an indictment on the person writing a thing...but you do you. What I will say is this: I at least offered concrete discussion on the topic and Zepla's points as she presented them in the video. Your post here in reply...did not.

Originally Posted by
Tahbitha
One does not simply post in these forums. There is mockery there, which never sleeps. Not with ten thousand alts could you change anyone's mind. It is folly.
Some things are so worth doing, they're worth trying, even if the odds are high of failure. Trying to inject sanity into madness or serious discussion into dens of hecklers are both worth trying.

Originally Posted by
Jojoya
The preface he started with wasn't his. It was Zepla's own preface - but he cut it down in size.
Then why did you watch Zepla's video? Most of what he wrote was things she actually said though he summarized it. A few times though he wrote what she said word for word.
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Are you sure you watched her video, or did you just have it playing in the background while you were watching Netflix on another monitor?
Yeah, I'm not sure everyone saying they agree with the video actually watched the video.
And the thing is (as I told Snow 20 pages or so back), when I do write shorter posts, people fill in the gaps with their wrong assumptions...then attack me over those assumptions. So I'm damned if I do ("too long, didn't read it") and damned if I don't ("You IMPLIED this!" "No, I didn't" "YES YOU DID!!" "I didn't imply it and I didn't mean that, I meant this..." "NO YOU IMPLIED THIS!!"). It sounds more like people searching for excuses to attack someone and not have good faith discussions with them at this point.

Originally Posted by
Jojoya
Challenge for you - pull up Zepla's video and watch it again. Put Ren's post to the side so you can compare.
Which is the long winded one?
Yeah, this is the weird thing. I'd honestly dare anyone here to summarize all her points and see how short they could actually make it without losing important details. I really am starting to wonder how many ACTUALLY watched the video they want people to talk about. Wouldn't it be hilarious if I was the first? I doubt it, but...it would be pretty funny at this point.

Originally Posted by
Nebelheim
So you essentially think people on the forums are uneducated morons because all of us don't write 100k word responses and think your more educated and above everyone else.
That is, in no way, what Jojoya said.

Originally Posted by
ZephyrMenodora
Hilarious. I'm also probably the wrong person to try to use education on lol.
This is why your reply was odd to me. I'd think you'd know better based on what you've said in the past about your background.

Originally Posted by
ZephyrMenodora
Yup, he corrected me in a shorter post that I did read lol. That said, can you really blame me for assuming - his post was long enough it very well could have used a preface.
Kinda can blame ya, yeah.

Considering the line right above that I literally laid out that I was about to summarize all her points and the very next lines are bullet points. If you had read the words immediately after "Preface)", it would/should have been obvious it was hers, not mine: "She says she wanted to..."

Originally Posted by
ZephyrMenodora
In my education, I was taught to be concise and to know my audience. This is a gaming forum, not a professional debate or a trial.
Here's the problem I have with this: IN THIS ONE CASE, people are asking folks to debate and discuss her video and points raised in it.
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I also want to draw your attention to something - ever notice how when you and I are agreeing on something, your posts get 2-4 likes (usually me being one of them)? Notice this post of you disagreeing with Jojoya (and me by proxy) has 11?
I kinda want to make an alt, bash my Ren account with that alt, and see how many upvotes it gets. I mean, my point on that has already been proven a hundred times over, but it would be amusing to then post on my main quoting the alt with all its upvotes as damning evidence to prove it once and for all.

Originally Posted by
ChrysOCE
They cannot get their point across without resorting to dissertation length posts.
You know? Any other time you might have had a point.
But we're literally discussing a 40 minute video and I literally just watched the video and listed her points and we're literally being berated about not talking about the video. If you watched the video and agreed with it, you spent far more time and effort than reading my post on the topic already, and if you (the people demanding we talk about it) were serious about talking about it, that was literally what my post was doing.
So far, only one person has actually replied to that - full of snark and insult, but at least did it - indicating that no one actually wants to talk about Zepla's points. They just want to berate anyone who won't agree with them...but seem not to even know what they are, considering the one person who DID go through my list accused me of making several of the arguments that were actually Zepla's arguments that they'd supposedly agreed to. It's almost like people aren't JUST not reading my posts, they didn't bother to watch the video they say the agree with.
Which begs the question of what they thought they were agreeing with...

Originally Posted by
Jeeqbit
My background is learning science, so I was taught the opposite (for writing summaries of findings): be concise and try to say the exact same thing but with less words.
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Usually if I end up writing a lot here it's because the original post is large as well. I try to keep at about medium here at most.
I'd like to test this, if you're game?
Watch her video again. Summarize all the points you think she's talking about, and offer your take on each, as I did. Can we see how long your post doing so will be? I'd like to see your take, honestly, and I'd like to see how short/long you can make it.
I'd also not the "original post" in this case was a 40 minute video. So...

Originally Posted by
Striker44
See, thank you for proving my point. This is why you don't get useful feedback, because you either just ignore it, attack the people providing it, or stuff lies in people's mouths and then attack them for it. ... But hey, I happened to pick one particular thing that's from a past expansion, and you immediately claim that's my entire list and then try to jump down my throat for it...and then you wonder why the doomsayers on this forum are ignored by anyone who actually matters (i.e. the dev team).
This happens entirely too often. I don't think people are intentionally arguing in bad faith, but it makes it REALLY hard to have good faith conversations/productive discussions. (And there are a few accounts that probably are bad actors...)

Originally Posted by
Saraide
New challenge: watch the video and shorten it as much as possible without losing viewpoints.
Yes, please.
I'd like to see everyone else's summaries.

Originally Posted by
Vahlnir
I'm guessing both of their next series of posts are about to get particularly spicy.
Nah, my next post was actually engaging in discussion. Seems I'm literally the only person in here other than the person I replied to doing so, btw.

Originally Posted by
Zairava
I'd personally prefer if we could all move on and actually continue an actual discussion, but knowing how this forum goes, it'll probably continue to get derailed into senseless bickering lol
I've been trying, dude! Seriously. I'm literally the only one posting about her video and her actual points. And the irony is, all the people not doing that are splitting their time between attacking me over it, insisting I'm the one derailing the thread, assuring that they want to discuss her points/the topic, and attacking anyone who steps in on my behalf.

Originally Posted by
Vahlnir
I agree. However, people choose to die on some pretty strange hills, so the bickering continues.
I mean, I'm trying to and you're browbeating me over it. If you want to engage with Zepla's points, all you had to do was reply with your take on them OR look at my summary and offer rebuttals to any of the points you disagreed with. You thought it was more worth your post count to do this instead of that. So how genuine...well, never mind. Point is, no one's stopping you from doing so if you REALLY want to do so.

Originally Posted by
Supersnow845
^okay ren I’m gonna say this in the nicest way possible but NOBODY wants to respond to 21 individual points raised to the point you have to edit the post to dodge the post limit. BRVV only did it to attempt to show you the futility of trying to have a discussion when you are making 21 points per post
Distill zepla’s message down to her core 1-2 points then argue those, that way someone who actually wants to debate you won’t have your post be 9 pages deep by the time they actually formulate their response, then everyone can participate in the debate; rather than those who have an hour on their hands
zepla can afford to be longer and more free form because it’s easier to listen to 30 minutes of discussion than to read its transcript
Snow, I'm going to say this in the nicest way possible:
Though MOCKING, BRVV did the right thing - actually responded to someone talking ABOUT THE TOPIC by...talking about the topic. And I was able to offer a direct response to him. THAT is what "discussing the topic" looks like.
Not mocking people's post length, not telling people they talk too much, not making fun of people, not berating people, not telling them how THEY should be discussing the topic. I'm literally the only one here discussing the topic other than BRVV's post replying to mine. NONE OF YOU are talking about the topic.
If you want to raise 1-2 of her points and so we can discuss those, then YOU CAN DO SO. I would reply to those points if you did.
Her message isn't 1-2 core points, though. It's 22. I know. I checked. I listed them out. Which shall we ignore? Shall we ignore the point where she thought the patches didn't add enough? Should we ignore where she thought Criterion didn't offer enough rewards? Shall we ignore her complaints on CC in PvP? Which points should we ignore?

Originally Posted by
Jojoya
Which is not what I said at all. It's like people were looking for an excuse to get offended.
There's a funny thing here with General:
If your name is Renathras OR you agree with Renathras, people start making up things you said and/or interpreting things you said in the worst way possible so they can take offense and berate you over things you never said that they want you to have said so they can attack you over them instead of engaging with the topic you're discussing.
WEIRD, but that's the way it is.

Originally Posted by
AlexiaD
Tried to quote this post
See?
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Everyone: We want to talk about the topic, Ren's derailing the thread.
Ren: <talks about the topic>
Everyone: LOL! Let's all mock Ren and berate him over post length!
Yoyoja: He's right you know.
Everyone: LOL! Let's all mock Ren and berate him over post length AND mock Jojoja, too! We want to talk about the topic, Ren (and Jojoya) are derailing the thread.
BRVV: I'm going to mock Ren but also respond to his points, that'll show him!
Ren: <Responds to BRVV's points ignoring the insults>
Everyone: LOL! Let's all mock Ren and berate him over post length!