Discussions on the internet will always get heated if they've gone on long enough, or even if they've just begun. I'm sorry to hear about your familial problems. Truly. That is rough. However, I definitely wouldn't compare that to what is said on here. The internet is a toxic place by default. I always refer to it as the Wild West. This forum is very, very tame when compared to other forums though. What doesn't help is that it feels like there's a complete disconnect between us on the forums and the devs because not even a CM will respond to hot topic issues 99.9% of the time, and when they do it's just about pointless. This is a place to give our feedback, so people have gotten extra frustrated as of late since they feel that their feedback isn't really being heard.