Off Topic Discussion Megathread

[MilkieTea]

I'd imagine that a lot of people don't like conflict or the potential of conflict, so this is their way of dealing with a problem without having to actually deal with the situation themselves. They ignore the other solution, that being actually communicating with someone to address an issue, even if it takes significantly less time. Passive aggressiveness is par for this community's course most days when a problem arises.

I'll be honest I've started reporting emote spammers once in a blue moon depending on where I am. Limsa? Nah. But in an instance? Yes. The mindset isn't avoiding potential conflict, it's ensuring that the situation gets resolved - had a group wipe because someone kept spamming danger bongos + text emotes in chat, distracted our healer, and basically snowballed our raid into death. They presumably got a warning since I checked up on them via a mutual friend and said mutual friend said they've not been online in a couple days (they previously were a play all the effing time kind of person). It's funny once in a while but every 2 seconds is a bit much...

There's also the distinct possibility that the person who's doing it is aware and doesn't give two shits :P

[Vahlnir]

I'll be honest I've started reporting emote spammers once in a blue moon depending on where I am. Limsa? Nah. But in an instance? Yes. The mindset isn't avoiding potential conflict, it's ensuring that the situation gets resolved - had a group wipe because someone kept spamming danger bongos + text emotes in chat, distracted our healer, and basically snowballed our raid into death. They presumably got a warning since I checked up on them via a mutual friend and said mutual friend said they've not been online in a couple days (they previously were a play all the effing time kind of person). It's funny once in a while but every 2 seconds is a bit much...

There's also the distinct possibility that the person who's doing it is aware and doesn't give two shits :P

Yeah, that is fair and completely understandable. I didn't say that everyone had the mindset I described, just that I imagine there's a fair number that do, based on my own experiences. But yeah, sometimes reports do need to be made, like the instance you described in your post. And it is definitely possible that the person I responded to initially was doing it and didn't care what the consequences were. Just wanted to put a hypothetical scenario out there is all. I know how people can be, but there's definitely more than one possibility at play at all times.