FFXIV Girls only discord server

[girlkisser]

today i learned that it's being crucified by cancel culture to get yelled at for being weird and transphobic, wild.
i would simply not double down when trans and queer people brought up concerns instead of acting like this makes me oppressed*.

[Batbrat]

today i learned that it's being crucified by cancel culture to get yelled at for being weird and transphobic, wild.
i would simply not double down when trans and queer people brought up concerns instead of acting like this makes me oppressed*.

I would say it's more like the alphabet crew eating each other alive tbh. I say this as a pink and orange alphabet member myself.
A lot of the girls in there are actually trans from what I saw, but what they don't let in are transmen if I'm understanding right? Feel free to correct that anyone.
Which on one hand it makes sense, because if you identify as male then why do you want to be a female server-wouldnt that be triggering? Wouldnt they have to curve the tone of their conversations about womanhood to be sure not to accidentally upset them somehow which would defeat the entire purpose of having a female server if you can't openly talk about everything female? but on the other...maybe they want the safety feeling of being around what they used to know? but don't they now hate that? and anyway, once you go from female to all gender accepting then arent you no longer a female server? Which by the way-arent ALL servers all gender accepting? So why does the one female one have to drop to the ground and decimate it's biggest rule and literal entire purpose when all the other genders have the entire rest of the world's servers to choose from?

This is a problem that I absolutely do not envy lmao lksdjfkljj. As said...after years of dealing with creepers, stalkers, dudes throwing a fit sending suicidal/homicidal things at me..yeah, I do now at this point avoid servers that arent primarily women. but it's always been a small circle of female friends who look out for each other and spam favorite series/music genres. That's really all it is. For the butthurt dudes who wanna be like 'omg waaah man haters' girl no one even talks about you in female servers-we are never trying to ruin each others day like that. Anyway..yeah it's a big confusing mess with this kinda stuff that honestly most times feels like..if you even try to ask, you're gonna get called a 'phobe' 20 ways to sunday. Tricky mess. My biggest advice is of course filter out the minors and the terminally online. but that's a little hard in an mmo community. Take a stance and accept that you'll be the big bad baddies for it and if you can't do that, then just give up being a female server. but at this point even if you do, you'll still have a bad rep anyway.