FFXIV Girls only discord server

[Lubu_Mykono]

Is it just run by a bunch of men trying to get laid?

[Bobby66]

Question, anyone willing to start an alt-girl only discord?

[MilkieTea]

Question, anyone willing to start an alt-girl only discord?

I’m down. So long as it’s inclusive and doesn’t force voice verification, and the mods arent forced to have at least 40 messages in the server a day!

[RatKing]

So basically a server for men to groom alt women lmfao

[Bobby66]

I’m down. So long as it’s inclusive and doesn’t force voice verification, and the mods arent forced to have at least 40 messages in the server a day!

How will we verify their alt status?

[MilkieTea]

So basically a server for men to groom alt women lmfao

I mean. If you view inclusivity as grooming that’s on you, might wanna evaluate your inner thought process if that’s the conclusion you jump to.

I’m of a mind that people can police creepiness without turning women away just because they don’t fit some subpar definition.

[Glenarn]

I don't see the issue from wanting to create a discord exclusively for females that play FFXIV, why did this turn into a bigger issue than it needed to be?

Are people forgetting there are reasons why bars, gyms and other services are catered towards different groups of people, I know everyone is just trying to do the best for others but some of you take it too far, also I really don't like the fact that the Trans person in those Twitter posts is trying to get people together in order to report a player to get them banned, please don't do that.

[MilkieTea]

I don't see the issue from wanting to create a discord exclusively for females that play FFXIV, why did this turn into a bigger issue than it needed to be?

Are people forgetting there are reasons why bars, gyms and other services are catered towards different groups of people, I know everyone is just trying to do the best for others but some of you take it too far, also I really don't like the fact that the Trans person in those Twitter posts is trying to get people together in order to report a player to get them banned, please don't do that.

The thing is, their verification process is inherently sexist and rooted in the very thing they’re stated to be against. Even dismissing trans issues, this is the equivalent of a bar on women-only nights turning away women because their shoulders are too broad, or their voice is too deep.

Also, even disregarding their Voice verification thing, there’s bigger issues than that at play. Grooming of minors, overworking volunteers, not paying streamers their due share, the list goes on and on. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: there is NOTHING WRONG with wanting to create a safe, inclusive environment for women to feel comfortable in. The wrongness comes from the actions this particular server has taken and continues to take, and the list keeps adding up.

[Faafetai]

The thing is, their verification process is inherently sexist and rooted in the very thing they’re stated to be against. Even dismissing trans issues, this is the equivalent of a bar on women-only nights turning away women because their shoulders are too broad, or their voice is too deep.

Also, even disregarding their Voice verification thing, there’s bigger issues than that at play. Grooming of minors, overworking volunteers, not paying streamers their due share, the list goes on and on. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: there is NOTHING WRONG with wanting to create a safe, inclusive environment for women to feel comfortable in. The wrongness comes from the actions this particular server has taken and continues to take, and the list keeps adding up.

I finally read the entire thread. Its ups, its downs, watching the train as it goes, as it always goes. Before this thread gets deleted or locked I wish to ask you a few questions about this place because I know I will not get an answer from the op. They dropped this thread like it was hot potato and bailed, and I see why >.<

If you are still checking in on this thread I wish for suspicions to be satiated. So not so much questions, but affirmations.

They really do care what your voice sounds like on the discord, and probably want pictures to prove your gender, maybe even an id card?
I would never considering joining a group like that but was curious because you seem to have...see some things. That whole place seems like bad news bears to me.

If you guys are serious about the girl group without creepy prying what happens if you do not have a playlist but just collections of albums you have gravitated towards for a time? Currently listening to The Avett Brothers, Tons of electroswing mixes, lofi hip hop mixes, Sonata Arctica, Hiroyuki Sawano, Mumford and sons, a collection of game soundtracks (Omori, anything supergiantgames tends to be really good, Closure), Quiet alot of Jazz. Oh my gosh Noir crime drama type jazz where you picture a smokey filled room with a singer in a red dress like something out of the 40s. Pretty much anything I can get my hands on really, but those are the favorites for the last few months.

[Nekaru_Infitima]

Personally I would never join anything anyone unironically called a 'safe space.' That word just always brings this to mind.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4MrTGZSPajI

'So and so only space' has existed for years. But safe space ergh *shudders*