why so much players have a rush mentality

[Nethereal]

I main tank, usually I do big pulls and don't dawdle

As for people who pull instead of the tank...

If someone runs ahead of me while I am playing tank and starts pulling, I don't take aggro and turn stance off.
If they want to tank so badly, I let them.

Hello darkness my old friend I've come to talk to you again...

If someone runs ahead of me while I am playing tank and starts pulling, I don't take aggro and turn stance off.
If they want to tank so badly, I let them.

I don't take aggro and turn stance off.

If they want to tank so badly, I let them.

I do big pulls and don't dawdle

Math doesn't check out maybe you should learn how to actually pull big?