I don't mind tanking or healing but I do mind people telling me what to do when I know my own capabilities more than you do. I don't wall pull because I know unless my healers on the ball, I'm going to die if invuln is on CD. And the healers I get? Trash. Think glare mage that doesn't use ogcds or even look at health bars then blame me for not mitigating because I ran out because the dps was crap. That's happened a few times to me now.

I don't solo queue into dungeons anymore as a result. Not as a tank.