Housing Demolition Sadness

[Naoki34]

I'm sorry for you, but this is going to sound a bit harsh.

If you don't go back to your house at least once every 45 days (going back is not enough, you have to use it), you don't really need it, because you just have to go back, interact with the land via chocobo, pnj sale, FC chest, retainers, etc. Once every 44 days to keep it. Once every 44 days to keep them.

I have never had a problem since Heavensward.

And you have to check next to it, your spams and you have the status of your CD housing in the Estate tab, it appears when you have little time left.