Yet despite having never be taught how to use their toolkit properly, advice is unwelcome and toxic, and somehow this became acceptable in XIV?
It isnt what you say, Zed, and somehow this small factor has been missed in the conversation.

Its HOW you say it. I have had a lot of useful conversations on rotations etc....but then again, said advice was offered, and received. in a proper, polite and constructive manner.

Something to think about, wouldnt you say?