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Does being transgender/non-binary make you hyper vigilant about pronouns? Is that symptom of depression and anxiety originating from pain caused by dysphoric feelings, or is that just normal and healthy thing?
Askin as cis-f who plays male character/s.
NPCs calling my character he/him never made me wanna crawl out of my skin; NPCs practically calling me he/him never made me wanna crawl out of my skin.
Don't wanna denigrate OP's friend's pain, but in my heart of hearts, personally, I see only negligible problem.