I can agree with what your both saying. A leaders job is to make desicions and move forward. Often times, those decisions aren't going to please everyone. If your not going to just make a decision and stick by it (which , in this particular case I wish he had done if he didnt want to poll), and instead take it to the players and cater to what they want, shouldn't you then make sure that ALL the players are given the chance to respond with what they like instead of just a small percentage that take the time to use these forums? From what I have read, the dev team was still debating with each other right up too the point when he posted option 4 as the means by which they would do this. That, too me anyway, should indicate that its time to lead, or its time to take it to ALL the players and see what they want.
I understand that the purpose of these forums is to give everyone that chance, but the numbers from the first poll prove that many people feel more comfortable using a poll to communicate what they want then they do getting on the official forums and dealing with others. (And seeing how people treat each other on here sometimes, I can understand why). To me it just seems like a slippery slope if they want to make large desicions like this based on the feedback of a small portion of the community as a whole.