So first off ERP is.... honestly this is an anime game and lots of young people play it and the whole community finder is full of mistress Veronica is going to whip you. Gtfo to porn hub or wherever. ERPers literally do deserve to be banned for this stuff, it’s not cute, it’s weird and you should keep it to yourselves if you really have to do it.

Secondly why is it important to know which of the things that breaks the rules (sexual content, using a disparaging word for disabled people as a slur) is what got you in trouble? Just stop breaking the rules and you won’t get banned. Being ‘European’ isn’t an excuse for being abusive. Sounds like you’ve been very lucky and square have been too lenient IMO.