Which Job should we raise first?

[Allegor]

Yup. You'd have to be pretty incompetent as a RDM or SMN, however, for me to leave you on the floor over a non-raising DPS. I've definitely been there, done that sadly.

TFW you raise a RDM only for them to start dpsing instead of help raising the rest of the party and then proceed to die a few seconds later anyways

It takes several GCD before a RDM has enough mp to be able to raise, FYI.

Well yeah, it's not like I expected them to pop Thin Air or anything, but one can normally spot the difference between a player that's at least trying to staying alive ....and one that's going YOLO