Quote Originally Posted by Eldevern View Post
If people wish to hide others glamours, as for the ones who want to show specific and personalized glamours, they are both and equaly legitimate.
I'm sorry, but I can't agree. I've read everything you wrote, and I understand that you're someone tolerant and everything. But what you don't seem to grasp (and that I didn't grasp, either, before I was told repeatedly about it, because it is indeed not intuitive, is that no, it's not equally legitimate.

Once again, you can choose not to care about the behaviour of one individual among many. But that same individual cannot not care about the behaviour of the whole society about them. Most people that suffer from gender dysphoria also suffer from depression, and when you're depressive, things ARE black and white. To them, having the option "not show other people's glamour" equals telling them "you don't exist, or people can just live their lives without ever noticing you". And by that, I don't mean "notice" as in "Ah, take care of me, I'm very special". They just want people to look at them, and shrug as if it's not important. The point is almost never to have people looking at them, and telling them they are wonderful and everything (of course there are egoistic people among those communities, but that's not my point). The point is that they want people to just accept them.

So yeah, I get where you're coming from. Younger, I was goth, and when I see younger people dressing as goths, I sometimes find it funny, or a bit ridiculous. But that doesn't mean I can tell them, or ignore them. Maybe it's just something they go through, as I did, and it will pass, but maybe that's what they identify as, that's how they will live their lives. You never know. So, as you don't know, you should let them have their space, but in the same time, aknowledge them for what they are : just people going through their lives and wanting to be treated as everyone else.


Also yeah...

Quote Originally Posted by MelodyCrystel View Post


Good traps are adorable and you can't change my mind.
Please don't compare a crime with freedom of expression.