If I had my way Hrothgar, Viera, Miqo'te, and Lalafels would all be hidden from my view. I dislike the way they look immensely yet you won't see me ever calling for a way to exclude them from my screen, because that is the way those players choose to represent themselves. As we all know, representation is a hot button issue at the moment. Can you imagine the negative press? "FFXIV gives male characters the option to wear a wedding dress! Promptly allows others to hide them from view." Good luck with that.
You have many avenues to find and play with many others who share your opinion. Linkshells, Cross-World Linkshell, Free Companies, Fellowships, and of course you can freely travel to other servers. Why not make a community for yourself and others? Don't want to see a cat boy in 2B's stockings? That's fine. You can go anywhere else.