Did Astrid Get the Most Votes on Every Server?

[Alleo]

He did have a handle on what he wants in life, just not what kind of person he would want to be with. What he lacked is experience, not finding himself.

They did ask him quite a few questions about himself and he was not able to answer even one of them. Also to know what kind of person you want to be with, you have to know what you want yourself. Do you want children? Do you want someone that share your view or is it fine if they dont. Do you have a moral compass and how would that influence your relationship? Knowing yourself is the first step to even know what you are looking for.

If he is a workaholic and has barely any time for a relationship then he needs a person that can accept it. Would he be willing to change his life for someone else? All of that can imo only be truly found by knowing what you want in your life. And after that you can take up a hobby and maybe meet someone there. Or meet the person that knows your future partner.

Astrid just wanted him to hit on anyone who might not be to dependend on him. This can turn bad fast..and at the end the partner she had for him was already in a relationship herself, making that situation really awkward.

[Sairys]

If he is a workaholic and has barely any time for a relationship then he needs a person that can accept it.

tbf, this seems like the reason why he's having issues in the first place. His entire life is his work even when he's not working, issues around relationships are why that sort of thing is considered bad heh.