I do understand that questions like "how can she slap?" are not the best questions if you wanted initiate change or at least good conversation (questions like that get a lot of "because she can.. what are you asking me?"), but I would disagree with you that it's already been given once request is understood (what's been given not equal to what is asked for). When instanced housing is requested, what is intended, what is meant to be desired, is not what exists, instanced housing as they ask for it is not what FFXIV has. And as one does when you want for something, you go and ask for/show desire for something as one should be able to- to be told what is asked for already is given is inaccurate (although perhaps desire could be worded more clearly if it's creating miscommunication, Jojoya is right that we should try to be clear as possible especially as these things go across translated lines).
So I can see how some wordings would/could annoy you and you may feel like they don't deserve an answer that you want to give, but I would disagree at the point that it's been delivered or that they can't ask for it even if there has been shown resistance (by the dev team) thus far. As a sort of example it was asked for a long time to allow us to queue and chocobo at the same time and SE was like "impossible", yet it was shown to be well worth the long game ask anyways. As chocobos are much better now that you can queue and use them (quality of the companions greatly improving, and of course this isn't the only example where persistence and showing the value the players have for something paid off- personally I'm even thinking further to their next MMORPG if they can't do something about it here).
If you wish people were less exaggerated or had better questions, fine and fair enough lol, but still the bottom line is that they're asking for something that doesn't exist currently and at least personally it doesn't seem like it should be hard to deduce that's what they're asking for either (given context and examples of other MMORPGs that have been able achieve the requested result). So if they clearly meant maroon when they said a dark purple red, I guess I find it unnecessary to clog up the information further. Although to be fair it could be possible it's not clear, which is why just in case I always (now) clarify what I mean about systems I'd like to see (now or in another mmorpg).
Also while not really important to the point I would say these are not anti-housing threads in the slightest, if we're at least attempting to be overly clear and not ask / pass silly questions like "how can she slap?" lol. Clearly people want housing to be more accessible and flexible than it is currently, if anything these are very much pro-housing threads but anti-FFXIV's current system. :P
Or I suppose I'd say in another way, while admittedly addictive, if you feel they've worded poorly and yet you understand their poorly worded desires does it help to give them a poorly worded answer vs improving the understanding and attempting to move the conversation to something more constructive? You're allowed to say it's more fun to respond purposefully fire with like fire.. but I just think that's a bad deal in the long run for communication ("I know what they meant, I dislike how they said or that they made it a really messy point so I'm going to knowingly further contribute to it being a mess"). Also of course to be fair and to add not everyone who posts pro-house (, "instanced house" lol) is posting in good faith either, some of what might come off as bad is just a bit unregulated passion but I'm sure some are more of a bad faith chaos / salt farm; although, having a similar passion/desire for instanced housing (as I've described it) and wanting to actively discourage the current system as a preferred system even if it only is taken into consideration for the next mmorpg.. it might be harder for me to see bad faith actors that look similar due to my bias.
While I think this can become dangerous if people start to basically go in the direction of "SE deserves my money and doesn't need to work for it" (an argument I don't feel you tried to make), I do agree that we should remember the good things and also tell SE about them. Just hearing people complain non-stop probably doesn't help one's enthusiasm for work. Definitely remember to appreciate things, just also don't turn it into "we should be thankful of X pitiful thing" lol (not saying anything is pitiful, it was only meant as a fill in the blank sentence). Not trying to slippery slope you as again I don't think you were saying people are not allowed to criticize, but I bet you could also imagine that argument (of needing to be thankful what you have) being used in a sort of white knight environment where everything is gold even if it's really really not "all gold". Actually that's why I made sure to mention I think SE's objects in the housing are fantastic, and I truly mean that. I do want them to know largely I think the game is amazing and I also try to take part in compliment threads, but I also don't want to be afraid to criticize what I feel like should be (obviously objective on what is good/bad lol XD). Of course not every thread that suggests something is criticism either, probably obvious but I felt to add it anyways.



, "instanced house" lol) is posting in good faith either, some of what might come off as bad is just a bit unregulated passion but I'm sure some are more of a bad faith chaos / salt farm; although, having a similar passion/desire for instanced housing (as I've described it) and wanting to actively discourage the current system as a preferred system even if it only is taken into consideration for the next mmorpg.. it might be harder for me to see bad faith actors that look similar due to my bias.
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. These people want houses, so they're not anti-housing. I know what you mean but if you were going to give people silly answers for what you felt were silly questions I thought it only fair to point out these are not anti-housing threads. They want housing, thus not anti-housing. They're anti-FFXIV housing, they want something different. They're not the same though, but like I said I understand what you're trying to say- they're definitely anti-something lol.
(I do), the forums are never going to change in that regard lol. Beyond that people will naturally spend more time complaining here (hopefully constructive criticism) than celebrating, because if you're happy or at least apathetic it's more likely you wont bother saying anything at all (which is a bit sad I guess, but generally how people are).
, because it would encourage bit of a toxic relationship.
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