I've never had a bad experience in WoW. I actually really enjoy the community, they're fun and nice and real chatty OW!
FFXIV is the exact same experience for me(minus the OW chattiness).
If I talk in party chat in either game, I either get replies, or I get ignored. Same thing happens in WoW and in FFXIV.
Except, in WoW I know I can say "adult" words when I mess up/die, without fear of offending anyone, so there is that. lol

HOWEVER. BIG.THING.TO.NOTE= I play on an PVE server.

Once you hit anything PVP related(in any game, esp pvp focused ones , the community 90% of the time goes to dirt, and everyone gets blocked lol.