I hear ya.
I do think that '' virtue-signaling '' is an actual legitimate term ( a lot of right-wingers do it too, even tho it's basically just used to attack people on the left for the most part. ).
But people overuse it a lot, it's the same with terms like '' SJW ''.
Yes... '' SJW's '' are an actual thing and they're extremely obnoxious and annoying, but just because you're progressive doesn't mean that you're one of them...
I am very sex-positive and I think that A LOT of people on the left and self-proclaimed progressives are extremely problematic too, like I dunno if I am allowed to say certain things on this forum but some of the language that so called progressives use when talking about women who are '' too sexy '' ( according to them ) is extremely disgusting and way worse than what I hear even from very conserative people.
Kotaku released an article covering a 3D model fanart of Samus from a Riot artist, an the comment section was seriously calling the model some incredibly disgusting things under the guise of '' wokeness ''.
Even big mainstream Youtubers that have now become popular ( Breadtube or whatever they're called ) do this.
'' Titninja '' is a lesser one, but there are way worse.
But seriously... If you refer to someone as a '' titninja '' then you're really just a sexist piece of shit and you're the one sexually objectifying women ( especially since they say it about female characters who they don't know shit about other than what they've seen, which I thought was something that '' we '' were supposed to be against? ).
And whenever I point it out I both get accused of being an '' SJW '', an '' alt-right incel '' AND of '' virtue-signaling '' all at the same time LOL.
People love to throw these words around as if it's some kind of an '' I win button '' and as if it's an actual argument.
I don't think that you can really accuse someone on the internet that you've only interacted with once of '' virtue-signaling ''.
There sorta needs to be a long-running pattern there which is usually inconsistent and mainly just following trends and isn't based in actual principles, otherwise you really don't know.