The DPS is not the Healer

[Eli85]

I don't see how it's entitled at all. You'll be spamming AOE on a small pack of three or four, and things will only go faster on a larger pull. DPS literally have no reason to be considered in this decision.

In what way is it entitled? The DPS have minimal, if any, relevance to whether or not to do big pulls. I've done big pulls where the DPS died and it was just me and the Healer and we killed the pull before the DPS got back from their corpse run. Why would I give any weight to that role's input when they have such trivial impact on the outcome? That's not entitled, that's just reality.

Let's break this down simply. The tank and healer are half the group. The DPS are the other half. Two individuals do not have the privilege to tell two other players how the group is going to go. Sorry, not how it works. 3/4 can tell the group how it's going to go, and if you're 1/4, and that's not palatable, then you leave.

But you as a healer or tank, thinking you're some special snowflake who can dictate how the dungeon is paced, regardless of what the rest of the group thinks? That's the literal definition of entitled.