What is a 'bad player'?

[Mamba]

Everyone that offers consoles isn't helping either because that person might holds some truth that OP was performing poorly, we do not know the story from the other side, so it's better to not judge either OP or the other guy.

I think him being an ass should be a motivation for you to get better instead of coming here, telling everyone he is an ass and made you cry. Shows him that you are a good and capable player by beating the contents, moogle has been around for weeks, there are a lot of videos lying around that can shows you a lot of perspectives from different classes, there are also a lot of discussions/tutorials.

I am fond believer that player that can take criticism well is the one that will be the best players around.

See, this is the kind of critisim I CAN take.
I understand that both sides should be heard but I don't want to start pointing fingers so I didn't mention any names. (I am also a strong believer in being polite)

However, I don't think anyone being an ass should be motivation to anything tbh.
I think if something is bothering you, you should tell the person what is bothering you and not start calling them names and acting like a jerk.
And why shouldn't I come tell my story on the forums? Isn't this a place where we share our feelings about the game and the community?
Maybe someone might read this and think about giving constructive critisism next time rather than being an ass? I dunno... I think talking about things in our mind is always better than not talking at all.

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See, this is the kind of critisim I CAN take.
I understand that both sides should be heard but I don't want to start pointing fingers so I didn't mention any names. (I am also a strong believer in being polite)

However, I don't think anyone being an ass should be motivation to anything tbh.
I think if something is bothering you, you should tell the person what is bothering you and not start calling them names and acting like a jerk.
And why shouldn't I come tell my story on the forums? Isn't this a place where we share our feelings about the game and the community?
Maybe someone might read this and think about giving constructive critisism next time rather than being an ass? I dunno... I think talking about things in our mind is always better than not talking at all.

Hi Mamba, I am very new and I usually just lurk but I just wanted to say that although this may be criticism you CAN take, it is not good constructive criticism. No one should have the right to be mean to anyone else. This is a game and everyone is playing to have fun. If anyone's idea of having fun is being mean to others, then they are misguided. I mean, who wants to play a game in which they are going to be hurt and belittled by other. No one does I am sure. Even the mean guy you're talking about would feel bad if what he did to you was done to him in return. So no, that is not good criticism at all.

A good player is like a teacher. She/he is patient and understanding and if they have anything to say at all, it is to be instructive, informative and kind. Like my dad says, if you have nothing good to say, then you're better off not saying it. After all, aren't games like these to make friends and have fun? Well let me tell you, I don't think he's making much friends, or having much fun, with that attitude, huh? Anyways, what good is it to take a game like this so serious that you put winning a fight with some pixel monster over the feelings of another player? Only a mean person does that. But just like there are mean people IRL, those mean people play games too. Anyways, I've typed too much already but I just wanted you to know that if you ever want a friend to play with to have fun I will play with you, even though I am only level 10! o.O