Quote Originally Posted by Vadrythen View Post
Take the role out of it. Simplify you're example. You have 4 people who want to do a dungeon.

(Tank) Case 1: 3 people wanna do it one way, 1 person won't join in. It's okay for the majority to decide to kick in that instance. They're all there to accomplish the same goal, but one wants to do it "slower" or "less funner" for the other three. Fair.
(DPS not aoeing) Case 2: 3 people wanna do it one way, 1 person won't join. It's okay for the majority to decide to kick in that instance. They're all there to accomplish the same goal, but one wants to do it "slower" or "less funner" for the other three. Fair.

...you see where I'm going with this, right? By ignoring the role and just looking at it as an activity, with a start and an end, you get to the crux of what you're talking about - a majority of a group wanting to do something a certain way, and the last member not joining in (or trying to join in). It's fair they kick, no matter the role. The role is irrelevant.

That's my take. Hope it helped. No offense intended.
That is what started the discussion, since at the core that is also how I view it, but as you can see people have differing views which makes it an interesting topic for me since I find it interesting to see what exactly makes it so some feel differently about a certain situation.