Why are standards seen as a crime in this game?

[Krotoan]

The "I'm new so I'm entitled to wiping raids because im learning" is embellishment. What usually gets said is "I'm new", the embellishment is mostly there to point out how unbelievably disgusting and entitled that sounds. Being a max level player and having purchased the game recently doesn't entitle you to wiping raids and wasting everyones time because you are new. State you are new, so people can help you. I meet a lot of sprouts in lvl 70 content and I ask who is new and doesn't know what to do, naturally, nobody says anything. And then we wipe. Again. And again. And again. And again.

Leave (the instance) . Your experience is in your hands. Expecting others to perform to your standards (even if they're reasonable) is still entitlement. People buy the game and buy boosts, or their friends run them through PoTD till they're 70. Lot's of people have neither time nor inclination to learn to your standards. This isn't a job. Nobody is forcing you to experience anything you don't want to. You want standards then as someone else said, gather like individuals. You do roulettes then expect casual sprouts. Also I rarely experience someone who is nearly as bad as you say. Sure there's some dead weight out there, but people who do bloody edge extreme content and don't know basics are quite rare.

This is not acceptable. You being new does not entitle you to wiping a raid repeatedly because you are learning. No, you were OFFERED the chance to learn from someone who knows more than you do, you were ASKED if you are new so people can help you. You decide to stay quiet and wipe the raid. How some people in this community consider this type of behaviour acceptable is far beyond me. If you do this type of stuff in other MMOs you would likely get hit over the face and immediately kicked from the majority of dungeons/raids because people will spread the word that you are a time waster and someone who refuses to learn. In FF14 i've seen this behaviour encouraged way more than I've seen it punished. Which is something that needs to stop..

You are not who gets to decide what's "acceptable" by yourself. If the majority of the playerbase is OK with it, why do you need to bring intolerance into the dungeon? Who's the odd man out when you're the only one tearing their hair out over it? People play this game for many reasons that don't align with yours. You get to customize your own experience and the fact you think you have the right to dictate how others enjoy it any further than a helpful suggestion or removing yourself from the situation shows a certain degree of selfishness and entitlement in itself.