What is a "bad player" to you?

[Lilseph]

Like I said, I'm not your enemy, I'm not disagreeing with you, but if a healer won't DPS, that's the least heinous thing I've ever seen in a dungeon, especially at max level. If a healer isn't healing, I'm not going to stop in the middle of the dungeon and lecture them on how to play.

It's a dungeon, I don't care. If this is end game content, then we have a different conversation. Your anger right now, is focused on the wrong person and direction.

Guess tones don't translate well into text. By no means I'm angry, I was just correcting something you cherry picked from my post. Also, the message goes to everyone, not just you. Because what you said, may be a question or a reply that some other user may have as well. Happy to clarify if there are blurry points in my arguments.

Personally and with all due respect, I'm not a huge fan of the "this is not savage" excuse for not using your tools. I am talking about all the jobs when I say that they should use most if not all of their toolkits. As a personal experience, it's not that it matters too much, I do politely ask the healers to DPS in dungeons if I see they are either standing still or spamming cures on me for no reason. While I'm running to the next pack I type: "Hey (name), feel free to DPS, I don't require much healing so you can go ham". Most of the time I get an "ok" and they start doing it. Too much, too little, I don't care, join us with the contribution. This is giving healer as an example because it's the topic we're discussing the most, but it also applies to any job with skills and utility that can benefit the group one way or another.