Things to think about before you call someone "Bad"

[Gallus]

Only if it involves the same people in perpetuity. If I type, "Can't I get a damn heal?" Towards two different healers, in two different instances, there is no correlation whatsoever except I died due to lack of healing and expressed my annoyance. This doesn't make it harassment unless we have some invisible "harassment meter" that fills up after every vaguely blunt remark.

This isn't about you or your own harassment meter as an individual player, it's about people generally being called out, harassed or insulted. If a person is called out on a regular basis, whether it's you or somebody else calling them out makes no difference when it comes to qualifying it as harassment, as long as it happens often. You are looking at this too much from your own personal perspective. Start looking at the big picture here.

Again, I ask, who elected you little miss fun police?

Starting to show our true colours? It hasn't taken much from what I can see, all I needed was to express an opinion that didn't match yours. I wonder in what kind of stuff this sort of discrepancy translates to when you are in an ingame context. Friendly advice it was I believe?

But I suppose I should make absolutely certain I, instead, type "I'm sorry to trouble you, White Mage, but if it isn't too much difficulty, can you please heal me? Oh, oh! I'm sorry. I should just stay in tank stance. After all, I can't risk hurting your feelings otherwise I would be harassing you!"

You don't need to write all that, behaving like a civillized human being and not like a child with anger issues is more than enough.