Quote Originally Posted by Gallus View Post
You really are friendly and tactful when approaching someone? Cool. But know many aren't. So do not act surprised when people raise the alarm when someone approaches to tell them they could play differently a 10th time when the other 9 times they got insulted and mocked.
You can be the most friendly person ever, but you are still shaming that underperforming person in front of the rest of the party.