Absolutely. What I was trying to draw a point to was that a difference in qualifications is to be expected, not a complete and utter dismissal of qualifications. It sounds like we're in agreement on that aspect.
We split here though. Where you personally believe that your time is better spent elsewhere I still see value in the discussion points. Nothing wrong with either of our viewpoints here, but it does clarify why you're "over" the convo, and why I still want to discuss it (note: not specifically with you, I mean the overarching points Bob's has referenced, but not defended).If the latter said "mythic is easy, it's just hitting buttons in a certain order and killing the boss" but they can't actually clear mythic what would be the point in asking what they mean? I wouldn't bother, honestly. Now maybe the latter group finds a better way of doing boss 6, even though they can't clear it, that is entirely different than this situation IMO. Something like "Well, it's easy because you can soak x mechanic with x class and cheese it." would be worth discussing, yes even if a group hadn't cleared it. Oversimplification and ignoring all nuance is not something worth discussing to me.
See - I don't think that's sort of different. I think it's functionally the exact same situation, just in a different application. Maybe I am wrong though? I gave additional real world examples in my previous post (they were to Miste not you, so not sure if you saw them or not) that supplement my viewpoint. In lots of different aspects of life, there exist situations where a 'coach' is much better at coaching then they are executing, dismissing their input because they can't or haven't done XYZ would be a disservice.Just like if I said tournament tennis is easy it's literally hitting a ball with a racket and i'm low ranked with no championships or ever even participated in a tournament I would look like a tool. I'm definitely less likely to take tips/feedback from someone if they believe something like that. But If I notice a basic/intermediate error that someone of even lower rank can notice, and I let the higher ranked player know, that is sort of different.
I do get your point. I just don't agree with it. If someone says XYZ I don't analyze the psychological desire behind it. I take their words at face value and expect examples/insight to supplement/defend their stance. The only time I look to emotional reasoning is when someone is clearly too offended, angry, or invested to have a logical discussion.
See I don't jump to conclusions in this circumstance. I don't get offended or accuse them of stroking their ego. I ask them to substantiate their argument with insight/examples to clarify their reasoning. I then debate those statements based on my insight/examples. To me this is a pretty basic tenet to healthy discussion.It is typical human behavior when people claim a task is "easy" without having ever performed said task that it is usually simply to stroke one's own ego, and it is also a typical human reaction for others to be off-put by it if they have performed said task and completed it and they know you haven't or you've given them no proof that you have.
I must not be a typical human LOL.
Agreed. I've said as much before. I was disappointed that he ignored my responses. I'd like to think my responses were penetrating enough that it put him in a corner that he couldn't dodge his way out of.The way Bobs goes about it is just off-putting like my example. He never backs anything up he just said the content is "not challenging" and left it at that. It is HIS responsibility to make sure people don't dismiss him by explaining his thoughts properly and answering people when they ask him "Why?". If he doesn't do that then that isn't my problem.
I cited my personal experience to provide context to my words. Bob's may not have the credentials you require to discuss these things, but surely my raiding career and experience has to afford me some semblance of qualification right? Again, I'm not saying absolute, or beyond reproach, merely a semblance.None of this was about your "95%+" raiding friends in WoW. Bobs is not one of them so I don't even get why you are even talking about that; are you taking this personally against you or your raiding friends? Because it isn't about you or them it is simply about how Bobs chose to present himself.
I cited that because I wanted to demonstrate that while I do not agree with Bob's methods, his words have some merit IMO. You all vilified him for his lack of experience, but I am hoping me citing my experience forces you (note: Not you specifically, the royal you, as in the community at large) to at least discuss the point with me.
Can you elaborate on me moving the goalpost? This is not my intention.You keep moving the goalpost and adding in stuff that isn't even relevant. Similar to your thing about "feedback"...feedback isn't the same thing as calling a fight "easy" that you've never even step foot in.
If you're referring to my examples, are you saying that none of them applicable to the discussion? Why do you believe that? They are functionally identical to your example.
In your example the beginner Piano player says XYZ is easy with regards to the piece the experienced Piano player is struggling with. You say this is a bad thing and that they should be dismissed outright on that notion because they are a beginner and do not have the qualifications to make such a bold statement.
In my examples - the less skilled tennis player is less skilled and thus is unable to give meaningful advice. This is simply 100% untrue. In the professional example, dismissing less knowledgeable or skilled end user feedback because they do not understand the intricacies of database design or federal regulations, is doing a disservice to the end goal. In the WoW: Legion example - are devs not the more qualified candidates to speak on balance? I've seen this statement echo'd quite frequently around here. Yet we have a clear example of overwhelming majority of negative feedback on a few specific elements that went ignored because "we aren't dev's we are wrong, trust us" only to have them walk back every single change, admitting they were wrong to ignore us in the first place.
If you think my examples are truly different than your own let me know.
Agreed here. However, when I see someone do something like this I don't just bat them away like a fly. I like to see them admit defeat. A poster like this will never truly admit it, so you put them in a corner by asking penetrating questions that if answered would obviously collapse their entire argument. Then when they ignore you (like Bob's has), you know they've lost, and everyone around watched them lose too.Bobs made troll-like posts, and said a job is OP due to minimum fflogs. He ruined any credibility he had about this subject and we just refuse to humor him like you are suggesting we do. I mean you even admit he seems like a troll...so...we already figured that waaaay back in this thread so I think you are just late to the party.
Now, with that said. The only reason I did defend Bob's in the first place, is because I do actually agree that due to the ridiculously scripted nature of fights, they are not hard to execute. I mean I literally watched a video or O6S, and cleared it in a pug in 6 pulls. Had I actually had to learn those mechanics on the fly sure, it would have been actually challenging, but without that barrier, it's wasn't at all.
His other statement regarding everything feeling like "asteroids" is actually a sentiment I've shared as well. Mechanics are very scripted in that almost any singular failure of adherence destroys your "ship" (obvious metaphor to party). Instead of mistakes leading to progressively harder mechanics and solutions, it simply restarts the fight.
I mean, I've never done St. Mociannes Arboretum. I would bet money it's probably a pretty easy dungeon.Also again I only dismissed things he said which were either factually incorrect like saying WAR is stronger than actual DPS jobs based on minimum fflogs, and the fact he called a fight he's never tried "easy".
His argument about WAR was downright silly though. He knew it, you knew it, and I knew it. Just because he made a silly argument there doesn't immediately invalidate all his other arguments though. God knows I've been shown to be wrong before. I've admitted and apologize for mistakes I've made. I've changed my opinion, or viewpoints based on other peoples convincing arguments. I always keep an open mind.
Absolutely. I wouldn't want you to think because I told you to. I want you to analyze and weigh my words. Then make a decision for yourself. I'd hate to see you be so close minded though that nothing I say would be able to convince you otherwise though. That to me just reeks of an emotional response and not a logical one.I mean you keep trying to get everyone to follow your philosophy on this...well.. no thanks? I can decide for myself when to listen to someone or not. I don't need you to tell me, so you are fighting a losing battle with me here. I am not going to change my mind no matter what you say.
The only reason it became circular is because of your responses like this. If you never respond to our statements, the discussion never goes anywhere.




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