@Rockette

I don't get upset at people not doing what I want. I get upset at people needlessly bellitling and name-calling me, after I tried to help them.
And I didn't mean the 2004 thing as a badge. I said time and time again that I don't think myself better than anyone. I used 2004 as a time measure for how long it took to come face to face with someone with that attitude towards receiving help. I wouldn't have written this post if the person in question would've just said "I appreciate it, but no thanks".

@Kakiko

Fair enough. But do know that this started exactly BECAUSE I tried to take other people's experience into consideration. That person's reaction was from me politely trying to help them, not from me flaming them. What I learn from this is that times changed, and people apparently are adopting a mindset in which sharing input is not welcome. Which isn't wrong nor right, it is what it is. But I feel sad that people are so evasive of other people's help, that I do.
And I'm repeating myself, but I'm learning the fights too, all I wanted was to share what l had acquired up until that moment. Far from hand-holding on my eyes, but this is of course, subjective.

@SinisterJoints

Not trying to farm. Trying to help.