This happened to me when Rabanstre came out. We wiped 4 times to 2nd boss before I asked, simply, "does anyone have any questions? " (smiley included, srsly). It set off an instant flame war and the alliance vote disbanded after the next wipe before I could even clarify that I was, in fact, offering to help and was not, in fact, an elitist agent of the Fun Police.

I mean it's fine if people want to tackle a fight blind, they should have that opportunity. That is my preference as well, in fact. But I don't think there's some absolute right that for the first week you get to just force people to tag along while you wipe endlessly because you're stubborn. If you want to do that you really should be in PF, or with your FC, or friends, or whatever.