Cliche? Yes.
Offensive? Only if you want it to be.
You're exaggerating what I said, or ignoring the spirit of what I meant to get your point across. This "not passing the Bechdel test" can make people uncomfortable, but sometimes women will discuss romance in fiction, Bechdel test be damned. There's nothing wrong with that and it's not a constant or defining trait of any of the characters in the story. I see no need for controversy over this.