FFXIV players are generally an elitist toxic bunch, nuff said. Don't like what I'm saying? Probably because it hit right on your mark.
I was insulted on an extremely personal level by my previous raid group.
So, I couldn't care less on who I'm offending anymore because most players don't deserve you being nice to them. It's a vicious cycle.
Just df and be contented that you are able to clear the dungeon, and watch the cutscene in the Inn. That's the reality of the game now.