Large pulls VS Small pulls... in leveling dungeons?

[Fynlar]

IMO, if you're a DPS consistently having to drop what they're doing to help the healer help the tank survive every pull, as well-intentioned as you might be, you should just stop. The tank surviving these encounters is only going to have him think that what he's doing is okay. Sometimes only a good death or two is enough to teach them that they're overdoing it. (That, or they just ragequit after one wipe... which is probably what happens more often nowadays)

[HyperSMB]

IMO, if you're a DPS consistently having to drop what they're doing to help the healer help the tank survive every pull, as well-intentioned as you might be, you should just stop. The tank surviving these encounters is only going to have him think that what he's doing is okay. Sometimes only a good death or two is enough to teach them that they're overdoing it. (That, or they just ragequit after one wipe... which is probably what happens more often nowadays)

Unless you are SCH, there are very few pulls a reasonable healer cannot keep a tank alive through.

That said, if the tank is making you uncomfortable, say so. I have found most tanks to be rather reasonable, or at least willing to go GIANT PULL -> Smaller pull to let me get my oGCD's back.