Harassing Healers - or: Please allow Parsers

[Taika]

but 99.9% of healer dmg thread have a pre-judge that the healer is plain lazy

This isn't true. People are saying that healers who refuse to DPS when they could (when the situation would allow them to) are lazy. There's a big difference there. No one is arguing (at least here on the forums, although I've read messages about people experience it in dungeons, while I've personally never seen that happen), that healers should be required to DPS while they're actually busy with healing and raising (and while them being busy is not a question of just very ineffective play, such as keeping themselves "busy" by doing nothing but spamming Cure 1 on tank).