This is the same man that put in A4S amongst others, aka content that absolutely 100% required parsing within a group to beat.

If this game wasn't so wishy washy and vague with how it presented damage, I'd be more inclined to agree.

At the end of the day, genuinely harassing anyone for whatever reason isn't really acceptable. It's a game, people are here to have fun and as stated multiple times, different folks can have staggeringly different levels of play. Some simply aren't up to the task and thus would take risks and cause issues attempting to play a style they aren't comfortable with.

HOWEVER

The special snowflake syndrome on display at times is frankly nothing but hilarious. I mean it truely is pathetic. I'd be ashamed to google some of this stuff down the line and see my name put to it. The auto engagement of 'butthurt' mode when others try to make suggestions no matter how reasonable and well approached is flat out sad. I pug rather a lot and I see way more of that than I'd like. It's not a healer only thing by any stretch. I've seen it with DPS, I've seen it with tanks. The attitude on show here wouldn't get someone past Valkurm beach in FFXI, it's amazing at how much this game encourages it.

The bottom line in my eyes:

If someone comes at you with a 'lol git gud' or 'lol dps moar' then sod them, they aren't worth the time of day. Move on.

If someone comes at you with polite and well constructed advice on how you could improve your game, don't cry harassment and foul parser play, instead consider listening and paying attention. It might just make you a better player for it.