Harassing Healers - or: Please allow Parsers

[Kallera]

it's true, a dpsing healer makes less damage than the difference between a good and a bad DD.

however, i started this topic not to talk about if a healer should dps or not, but to point out that the whole healer dps debatte on the official board feels like a witch hunt. sure, a dpsing healer is better than a non dpsing healer. we all know that. but every other day a new topic starts and it seems the whole purpose is to harass the non dpsing healers and the dpsing healers put themself into a better light.
i don't think this is something wich should be tolerated on the official boards. but if it's tolerated, why are parsers not tolerated? why is it okay to harass healers here, but using a tool wich could be used to harass someone is not allowed?

Because the tool can be used to harass someone AND would irrevocably change the requirements in pf and beyond. how newbie friendly could ffxiv claim to be if the bulk of its pf and fc requirements demanded ###dps or be kicked, with the only guidance outside of the game and in spoileriffic youtube videos?