Should SE do something about PvE toxitiy?*point PvP change*

[Ama_Hamada]

Except I'm not saying you didn't need help, or that healer DPS is more important than keeping people alive and stopping the other healer having a heart attack from stress. I'm saying that complaining about people being toxic by giving examples of your friends being toxic to others in response to perceived toxicity is feeding the cycle of misery. Anyone can get ilv 270 gear with a relic if they put some time in and play withfriends. It doesn't mean they know exactly what your friend wants them to do in a situation like the one being described - because in a lot of raids, leaving all of the healing to one healer and messing around with your fairy out is a perfectly valid strategy.

Seriously, as a bystander in that kind of situation I would just leave myself rather than cringe through the rest of the dungeon with an awkward atmosphere hanging over the group. Thankfully, the players on my datacenter don't treat one another that way.

Wow, so you are telling me it is best not to say anything and let people die?

Incorrect, it isn't a raid and never will be. Sure SE puts it under the raiding category in duty finder but that still doesn't make it a raid. It also doesn't need 2 healers. We learned in ARR content already (min ilvl not over geared) that most content can be healed by one healer aka solo healed. That continues into HW and while I do see some players struggling, it's pretty simple to heal/tank all regular content with only one tank/healer, if people get an understanding of their jobs.

I am pretty sure, if your friend wouldn't have put that sarcasm into the sentence, and would have just simply stated that he/she is not able to solo heal the content, that the other healer would have been more than happy to pick up the slack or help out a little bit more. But saying, dps less and heal or you are aware you need to drop cleric stance to be able to heal right? is maybe not something a lot of people would react on. In fact I can see how that would cause just the opposite and would be ignored by most people, including myself.

It needs 2 healers per party when people don't dodge perfectly. It also does not help when you are expecting to share the healing and dps and all of a sudden you are stressing because people are dying when they shouldn't be due to lack of healing. Only top gear healers do this in dun, I pted with them too. If someone is hit by something they could of dodge, mistake, being new, whatever the case my be, they will not heal them at all and rather them die or let the other healer (me) heal it all.

Also you are not reading, she was only sarcastic after she asked for help and not getting it. The other person said nothing to her the hole time, what do you expect her to do that point?