Quote Originally Posted by Serilda View Post
Right; I get why it was frustrating. It's just that being a jerk to someone (being sarcastic absolutely counts) is never going to improve an already-bad situation. By all means dig your heels in and get forceful, but rudely making fun of them to the entire group is rightfully going to annoy people - I'd probably have left too even if I was some irrelevant DPS player not being yelled at. Are you even sure they understood? Ask me to 'cleric less' or vaguely say you're having a hard time without any context and I'll probably have no idea what you mean, and I'm natively fluent in English - a good portion of the playerbase isn't.

I feel like a lot of people are quick to assume the worst when it's their own communication which could use work. I'm not that healer, but I've been in groups with rubbish communicators before and if they're going to work themselves into a tizz and rage at people instead of speaking more clearly then they have to accept they're part of the problem. I don't like playing with people who make fun of others rather than trying to resolve the problem. Sarcasm never resolves problems.
Asking for help from a 270 pure gear healer and 275 relic when everyone is under 50% should not be explained in detail what it means when asked "can you help heal a bit more and dps less?"

Casting DPS spells when people are in badly in need of heals is not assuming anything

Dun is STILL A RAID! A place that needs TWO healers, not one, per party.