Should SE do something about PvE toxitiy?*point PvP change*

[Ama_Hamada]

If I may say something about this.
Don't get the wrong idea. If that healer didn't care about helping you when he saw you had trouble healing the party, he did wrong and he's just bad... or toxic,whatever.

BUT, know that, personally, I'm part of healers who dps a lot (but also do my job as a healer).
Since a lot of content can be solohealed (meaning that, the heals of one heal alone is enough to keep the party alive), well it's better to do something useful for the party, and dpsing is a way. Reducing the boss HP is all our concern after.

My point is, if you meet healers who let you soloheal, it isn't because they absolutely want to dps, but because your heals may are enough.
If he doesn't help you however if there's more heal than needeed, we can talk about toxicity in that case.

I'm a little sad to see every type of player spitting on eachother playstyle without always knowing players they are with.
I'm not saying that to you Ama, but in general.

Don't say it's raiders fault. It's players sometimes being asses.
That's all.

I DPS too, I am sure everyone does. However when people "stand in bad" or make mistakes and they still refuse to help because they are top geared and feel their DPS is so much important, then it is insulting. If it can be solo healed there would not be 2 healers. You do not just clearic stance 24/7 when there is 2 healers letting EoS do all the work and go oh i am healing.

One time I was in lolST with a i90 level sch doing it to me, calling me afk and harassing me over healing when they DPS 24/7 saying eos was doing all the healing and they where damaging bosses. I really wanted kick them but it was treasure > pull making no opportunity to do so.

Why did they say it in such a passive aggressive way? If I slipped up and didn't notice the other healer was struggling and the way they dealt with it was to be sarcastic to me I'd probably get annoyed too. I understand they were frustrated but this was just massively escsalating the situation. Maybe the other healer wasn't good at English or was having some other problem. The toxic attitudes go both ways.

Because they where not responding to the softer comments, as said this was after asking for more help and it was being refused. No spoken word by the person and kept up DPSing when healing was needed.