Most of it has been posted but nothing can top of PLD overwritten my protect spell IMMEDIATELY after i cast one, i know it has no difference but seriously?

Several things that irritate me....
- Dps/tank in party give me a buck load of common/useless tips as healer nonstop just because "trust me iam an expert"
- range dps going very far far away from healer and other member, basically out of AOE heal range just because they "feel safer" that way
- party who stand still even in "red" zone and when i ask why, replied with "then heal, thats your job" really?