But that is an actual job. You're paid to do that. FFXIV is a video game, you play it to have fun. Being bossed around by people isn't really my idea of having fun. I don't think someone is going to pay a sub just to be told what to do and be yelled at if they just so happen to not want to. It's not like they're intentionally wiping the party, or harassing a player. They just simply don't want to do one thing that does not have a major affect on the party. I'm starting to wonder where is that other person. Who wants healers to dps, but actually gave advice as to how to ease their way into it and realize just how fun it can be. That is a perfect example as to how to ask people to do something that will help the team. Maybe that healer won't dps during that dungeon. But eventually they may think on it and maybe actually try it. That's what happened to me and I've be dpsing as a healer ever since. Thankfully I talked a person like that as compared to a lot of people in this thread.