Healer Confessions

[FunkyBunch]

I have a bad habit of letting DPS who try to off-tank or not FF tank's target die. I'll warn them once, then if they do it again, I let them die and say, "Now what did we learn?"

That the tank is bad...? (or undergeared). If the tank was undergeared, then yeah I can see it, maybe if the DPS was being terrible, but if not, it's not the DPS' fault, it's the tanks.
I don't see how killing a DPS when the tank is bad helps at all.